Leading by Example

Jeff lives in pain every single day. But “the pain isn’t half as bad as losing everything and being homeless, he says.

His opiate addiction started with his many in-and-out visits to the hospital, after several motorcycle crashes (one leading to temporary paralysis) and a serious workplace accident broke his back in half. He says they loaded him up with pain pills often. The hospital once found him unresponsive after an apparent overdose on pain meds, leading to his kidney and renal failure. When he ran out of prescribed pain medication, he turned to street drugs, like heroin, or to purchasing pills illegally. It was an unexpected turn for a man who barely touched alcohol and recreational drugs while growing up in a family of addicts.

“I drugged everything away,” Jeff says. His wife divorced him and he lost everything he had. He ended up on the street, barely washing or holding himself together, then in a shelter. His depression became so severe that he felt he had no reason to live. Yet, he says there was still something calling for him to do the right thing.

Jeff ended up at a sober house where the landlord recommended him for the multi-agency-run Transitional Access Program (TAP) that facilitates housing for working people who are homeless or at risk. Continuum’s South Central Peer Services program coordinates TAP.

TAP covered a month of Jeff’s rent at the sober house, which helped him to concentrate on his road to recovery. He worked hard on himself. Two and a half years later, he is sober and still living at that sober house. But now, he oversees it. In fact, Jeff manages 5 sober houses. “I have 72 guys who count on me every day now when before I couldn’t even count on myself,” he shares. He also advocates for people as a caseworker for TAP.

Jeff leads by example. His day starts at 4:30 am and doesn’t end until midnight as he fields calls and handles issues within the various houses – “I’m never too busy for people if they want to talk.” He constantly cleans and fixes things in the houses to maintain an inviting living environment for residents.

Jeff copes with his occasional feelings of sadness and loneliness by focusing on the positives, tapping into religion, and keeping busy. He no longer needs to take medication for depression, and he refuses to even take an aspirin for his pain. Most importantly, his kids are back in his life and Jeff has found a life of purpose and meaning.

Things aren’t perfect, but another thought keeps him going. “There’s a saying that goes, ‘I’m not what I to be, and I’m not what I’m gonna be. But I thank God I’m not what I used to be.”


Won’t you consider a gift to Continuum so we can help transform a life like Jeff's?
 

How Your Donation Can Help Someone Like Jeff:

  • $500 Can pay the security deposit for someone transitioning out of homelessness into an apartment
  • $250 Can purchase furniture for a new apartment
  • $200 Purchases a “New Home Basket” with kitchen, bathroom, and cleaning essentials
  • $150 Can buy basic items not covered by medical insurance, like eyeglasses and dentures
  • $100 Helps pay heat, electric, and water bills
  • $50 Can provide necessities like clothes, underwear, socks, and duffle bags
  • $40 Helps pay for a month’s worth of daily bus passes for travel to appointments or a job
  • $25 Can pay for groceries
  • Other All donations directly benefit those who are in our care or are transitioning out to their own apartment

Other Ways You Can Help:

  • $5,000  You can “Adopt a Group Home” operated by Continuum. (Continuum operates 44 group homes in Connecticut, helping individuals to stabilize and live in the community. Just like any home, upkeep and maintenance are ongoing demands.)
  • $2,000  You can help improve the critical health conditions faced by those with serious mental illness by supporting Continuum's Health and Wellness Department.

 

Continuum of Care, Inc.’s mission is to enable people who are challenged with mental illness, intellectual disability or other disability, and/or addiction, to rebuild a meaningful life and thrive in the community.